Sunday, 05 February 2012

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Timothy Gardner
Ul. Kalyaeva #167
Krasnodar, Russia
350047

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Did you ever read the Little House on the Prairie books? Not only did I read them over and over as a kid, but a few years ago I re-read them as an adult, and loved them more than ever. I’ve always been amused by one particular chapter in the 6th book, Little Town on the Prairie. The chapter is called, “A Whirl of Gaiety,” and it chronicles one week in 16 year-old Laura’s life, when she’s living in the town of DeSmet, Iowa. I’m not sure of all the details, and I can’t look them up, because that’s one of the books Tim’s already shipped back to America, but I remember that the description of that week’s events included things like an ice cream social, a debate club meeting, and a night of community charades at the schoolhouse. In the end, Ma Ingalls collapses into a chair, declaring that the “whirl of gaiety” has been too much, and she’ll be glad when things get back to normal. 

I suppose you could say that’s what we’ve had around here lately.  On Tuesday, we had our last English club meeting with our University students. We had prayed for a chance to share Christ with them before we left, and in the middle of a conversation about politics or movies, or I-don’t-know-what, one of them suddenly asked, “So what’s your religion?” So we got to share the whole Gospel message with them all. Totally exciting! We will miss this group of intelligent, enthusiastic young people. We’re trying now to plug them into another friend’s English club, where they can carry on with what we started here. 

On Thursday, our neighbor Galya graduated from university. She is now a fully-qualified veterinarian: we are so proud of her! I went to the graduation with Nina and Vladimir: what a cool celebration it was! The ceremony was not unlike what you’d see in any American university, but with far less pomp and circumstance, and much more of a feeling of fun and hilarious celebration to it. Students here don’t wear the traditional Anglo-American gown and mortarboard, instead, they each choose their own special outfit. Russian girls love to dress up and look nice, so for me, it was as much a breathtaking fashion show as anything: women wore anything from dressy pants to full-length ball gowns. There were slide shows and speeches, and—as tradition dictates—the first-year students put on a presentation for the graduates. They chose to do a musical expose, with singing, ballroom dancing, and belly dancers who walked on glass. I was amazed at the level of talent in people so young, and the whole thing was very festive and fun. 

In the afternoon, our Russian company (through whom we get our visas) threw a party for the American families who will be leaving. (On the way there, I had a quarrel with a taxi driver who tried to cheat me, which is not worth going into here except to say that I won: HA!) Every Russian woman I know sets a table and presents food like a professional caterer, so it was all very elegant. Also, these particular lovely people always go to great pains to do something special for our children, which any parent will tell you is a direct route to a mother or father's heart. The American families each shared a particular impression or memory they had from their years in Russia, and in the end, we had a big group photo session. (Also I sold my dishwasher to someone there, which was like a bonus, if you know what I mean.) I should add that poor Tim missed both the graduation and the company party, because he was down with a fever, chills, and a monstrous sore throat. He’s feeling better now though, thanks for asking. 

Are you tired yet? I was! On Friday, we went to the village where we’ve been helping with English classes, about an hour and a half away, and had a last evening with our beloved “second family” up there. The biggest prize was our teacher Svyeta’s Baby Alicia, just 3 weeks old. I got to hold her, between courses, and watch while she had her bath. Pure medicine for the soul! 

I brought my abacus (acquired in a shrewd business move at the market in Kiev) and Babushka (Grandma), who lives in a little house next door, and used to be an accountant, taught me how to use it. I’ve become a bit of a fanatic, practicing while the rest of the family does normal things like watching movies at night. Although I can’t yet multiply or divide, I can add and subtract large numbers pretty quickly. Also, someone recently gave me a medical suture kit from America, and since sutures weren’t something I learned in nursing school, I took the kit to the village with me, and Svyeta’s sister Natasha, who is an OB-GYN taught me to do stitches. Imagine learning to use an abacus and put in sutures all in one night, and all in Russian: Who’s luckier than I am? So I’m thinking of starting a business when I get back to Maine: sort of a combination drive-thru accounting and urgi-care firm: “Your Finances All Sewed Up.” Catchy, eh? 

One more thing we accomplished Friday night was to make one last delivery to the drug/alcohol rehab farm and the single mothers’ shelter in that village. These two wonderful ministries have been the final destination of many of the things you’ve sent us these last several years. We’ve often had the first-hand word of kids who’ve been blessed by the hats, blankets, soccer cleats and craft supplies you’ve sent, and recovering addicts who live off the clothes that came in your boxes from America

Today is, let’s see…Saturday. I spent the morning sorting the kids’ school papers (“Keep In Case a School Board Somewhere Wants Proof That You Taught Them Something” and “Throw Directly Into the Dumpster, Do Not Pass Go, Do Not Collect $200.) This evening, we had dinner with our neighbors to commemorate Galya’s graduation. 

I should add here that Galya is hoping to immediately enter the post-graduate program, but in order to do this, she has to be able to speak English fairly well. We have been working on this together, 3 or 4 times a week, and her progress is very rapid. I have high hopes that she’ll pass her oral entrance exam in two weeks, but by that time, I’ll be out of the country. She jokes that I’ll be far enough to be out of firing range, if she doesn’t pass, and close enough to reap the credit if she does! 

Tomorrow is our final good-bye with our church. Our last week will be spent saying farewell to the American community here. Meanwhile, we are always in the thick of selling things (I live with my cell phone in my hip pocket these days), and sorting and packing and throwing out and giving away. What a process. Would I be a wimp if I admitted I’ll be glad to hit American soil and stay put for a few weeks?  Like Ma Ingalls, I'm ready to get back to the quiet life.

Meanwhile, next week promises to be just as full and every bit as bittersweet. I’ll keep you updated, and you keep praying for us!